Usually, when someone does not do their job well, they become indignant and say: “Do you know how much they pay me?!” We know, but we do not understand why you are here. In my opinion, everything is very simple: if you do not like it, do not do that job. And it should be the same with everything.
If you find it difficult to live with a person, do not live with them. If a business partner treats you badly, change partners. If an outfit does not suit you, give it to someone who looks better in it. If you do not sleep well, pay attention to your state of mind. If you feel unwell, get treatment. If living in the country feels oppressive, move to another country. Take action and stop complaining.
If you do not change anything and take no action, that means you are actually fine. Be honest with yourself — you are fine. You are good at complaining and whining. Good at enduring. Good at being a victim. It feels good to be sympathized with. It feels very good when someone makes decisions and solves problems for you. It feels good not to have to do anything with your own life. Peaceful. Everything is predictable. That is your comfort zone.
Admit it: you are where you feel comfortable. That is the truth.